It’s normal for someone experiencing cognitive decline and trying to adapt to this new reality to experience increased stress. Depending on the severity and intensity of the condition, there are various strategies you can use to help. However, it’s important to first understand what’s causing the stress.
Stressful situations typically involve at least one—but often several—of the following:
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Loss of control
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Unpredictability
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Something new or unfamiliar
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A potential blow to the ego or self-esteem

Cause of the stress |
Actions to reduce the stress |
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Loss of control |
Instead of deciding, for example, what clothes they should wear or what food to have for dinner, present them with different options. This reinforces their sense of control. |
Unpredictability |
Establish regular routines and provide frequent reminders. |
Something new or unfamiliar |
Pay close attention to any changes in the living environment. The idea isn’t to avoid all new experiences—since novelty can be beneficial—but to stay vigilant and ready to support them when they encounter a new situation. |
A potential blow to the ego or self-esteem |
Empower them by focusing on their strengths and interests, and by giving them a role and responsibilities. Don’t infantilize them. |